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Overcoming
Homesickness Abroad
Being homesick can change many things during a
basketball season. If you went away to college far from home you
probably have experienced a little homesickness. It's quite normal
and in my opinion nothing to be ashamed about! Arriving and living
in a new
culture for most people can be overwhelming and very
difficult.
It’s normal to miss friends, family and things you are used
to back in your home country. When I first left to play basketball
inFinland
from the USA, I missed the grocery stores being opened everyday
until at least 11pm. But in Finland and in most European countries,
all big stores are closed on Sunday and usually stay open during
the week until about 9-10pm. Yeah big shocker for American's who
have experienced stores like Walmart
and big grocery stores open 24-7. (Article
attached)
So hopefully this will prepare you and not scare you from playing
basketball overseas! However I recommend that you try to get adjusted
to the culture
and make the most of your time overseas. Staying in touch with friends
by phone (expensive), email, and letters is important when going
away for a 7-8 month basketball season.
Most basketball
teams in Europe have a small break in November for
European competition within that particular country if they participate.
If you arrive in August or September then you could probably go
home in November if the team allows it. In December you should have
a break for Christmas to visit home for one or two weeks depending
on the scheduling of your league. So time does fly by really fast
if you look at it that way. In no time it will be playoffs and you're
back home with your family and friends. Take a look at my basketball
timeline for more information of a typical basketball
season.
Staying busy is important for me because that point I find
myself bored I feel like I want to go home. I always try to stay
busy, in fact I volunteered to work in a local library in Finland.
I went every morning about 9:00 and stayed until morning practice
which was 11:00. Went back later for a hour or so. It was very rewarding
for me because it was a chance to use the internet, make this website
and keep myself busy. So if you are highly motivated you can find
ways to not get homesick and make your stay overseas worthwhile.
Last year I studied Spanish
at a local university for two hours each day for 3 days during the
week. Learning Spanish was very important for me to communicate
with my team and just living in Spain. NO ONE likes to speak English
there :) After classes were over I found a new hobby that could
interest you.